Being single probably is one of the top problems among Novena girls. But only some of them understand that the problem can be not only in guys. They also can change something about their selves, if they don’t want to end up alone in a company of cuddly cats.
So here are some typical reasons you can easily give up, to reduce chances of being alone:
1. Celebrity gossips
For God’s sake, stop following fake celebrity gossips and watching reality shows as crazy. These things are fake in almost every case, and, as well as developing your stupidity, they may also form unnatural life priorities.
2. Doing charges
Even if you are a self-confident and independent Nigerian lady, don’t forget about learning to cook and doing home chores. Gender equality is a good thing, but it is not a reason to turn your house into a mess. And don’t forget that Nigerian men love good cooking!
3. Less makeup
Too much makeup is not doing good for you. The truth is that lots of men are indifferent to makeup. Many of them even don’t like it at all. So it is better to forget about high school and to look more natural.
4. Don’t give your number to any guy you can
Any guy would disgrace if your phone rings often and you will be laughing and chatting with other guys. You may not be a playgirl, but a guy can think that you are.
5. Wrong presentation
Some Novena girls try to dress attractive, but it turns out that they are ridiculous. Your dressing style determines kinds of men who are attracted to you. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.
6. Bad manners
When you want to look “attractive” or “hot” for a man, don’t think it can turn into something serious. Your wisdom, inner beauty and good manners are factors which makes a man stay with you, keep faithful and have long-term relationship. If you rely only on your good appearance, don’t be surprised if a guy runs away after accomplishing his “evil” mission.
7. Too much advice from friends and relatives
Of course, family values is important in Nigeria, but remember that it is you who are going to live with this person, NOT your friend or relative. Let them have their own life and you will enjoy yours!
So here are some typical reasons you can easily give up, to reduce chances of being alone:
1. Celebrity gossips
For God’s sake, stop following fake celebrity gossips and watching reality shows as crazy. These things are fake in almost every case, and, as well as developing your stupidity, they may also form unnatural life priorities.
2. Doing charges
Even if you are a self-confident and independent Nigerian lady, don’t forget about learning to cook and doing home chores. Gender equality is a good thing, but it is not a reason to turn your house into a mess. And don’t forget that Nigerian men love good cooking!
3. Less makeup
Too much makeup is not doing good for you. The truth is that lots of men are indifferent to makeup. Many of them even don’t like it at all. So it is better to forget about high school and to look more natural.
4. Don’t give your number to any guy you can
Any guy would disgrace if your phone rings often and you will be laughing and chatting with other guys. You may not be a playgirl, but a guy can think that you are.
5. Wrong presentation
Some Novena girls try to dress attractive, but it turns out that they are ridiculous. Your dressing style determines kinds of men who are attracted to you. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single lady.
6. Bad manners
When you want to look “attractive” or “hot” for a man, don’t think it can turn into something serious. Your wisdom, inner beauty and good manners are factors which makes a man stay with you, keep faithful and have long-term relationship. If you rely only on your good appearance, don’t be surprised if a guy runs away after accomplishing his “evil” mission.
7. Too much advice from friends and relatives
Of course, family values is important in Nigeria, but remember that it is you who are going to live with this person, NOT your friend or relative. Let them have their own life and you will enjoy yours!
true talk...
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