Lagos girls are very sophisticated,
approachable and good to be with, but why are Lagos men going back to
the village to pick their wives? What is it about village girls that
makes them potential life partners? Or is this just a fallacy?
Here are 10 reasons Lagos men go back to the village to select their spouse instead of marrying their Lagos counterparts.
1. Food
Do village girls cook better than city girls?
They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach. Men love
food and no man likes to return home and not meet a well prepared meal.
Village ladies have the upper hand when it comes to performing wonders
in the kitchen. Those delicacies that melt a man’s heart and remind him
of those nostalgic past are made real by village ladies. Every meal is
likely to be a sensation and not the usual rice and bread that is
adopted during bachelorhood, Lagos girls on the other hand dwell on
refrigerating and microwaving food which does not give the same result.
Some even order meals or drag their spouse to a restaurant. Lagos men
would rather go for a home-made meal prepared with fresh ingredients and
spiced with condiments rather than keep a daily date in the restaurant.
2. Attitude
Are village girls better in bed than city girls?
Village ladies grow up with the right orientation and attitude which
is what most Lagos men desire. Little attributes like saying ‘good
morning’ and ‘thank you’ can go a long way to make a man happy. Village
ladies are brought up with a drilling knowledge of respect and attitude.
Lagos ladies exude behaviours that raise doubt about their attitudes
and orientation and men try to avoid ladies without the right attitude.
3. Submissive
Either by nature or nurture, men feel they are superior to women and
like it when they get a lot of respect from women. No man wants to marry
a woman if he knows she will challenge his superiority. Lagos men know
that most Lagos ladies have been so exposed to similar and equal life
styles that can lead to tension in the home. Men know that village
ladies pose no threat when it comes to class and level and feel more
comfortable with that rather than engaging in a class tug of war with a
Lagos lady.
4. Home
Village ladies have very homely qualities that make a man happy. They
know it is their duties to do the dishes, laundry, cook, make the home
and still take care of the children. Lagos ladies however feel that the
modern world in its unwritten law desire men to also help in the house
chores and not many Lagos men are adept at doing that. With a village
lady however, they is not question about who will do the house chores.
5. Career
Perhaps city ladies have careers that make them to busy for their homes
The issue of career is always a big problem to men. As much as Lagos
men love successful women, they dislike it when a woman’s job becomes
her priority and he his relegated to the second position. The higher a
woman goes, the more a man finds her unapproachable. Village ladies are
very enterprising instead and know how to combine the home with the
family well which is what Lagos men prefer.
6. Beauty
Who is more attractive, city girls or village beauties?
Lagos ladies are very attractive but men have discerned the
difference between natural beauty and the pancake and lipstick beauty.
Lagos ladies are very adept in transforming themselves into angels that
it would be difficult to tell the difference between the ‘former and
later picture’. Lagos men know they are seeing the real picture when
they meet a village lady and not a black-to-white transformation that is
typical of Lagos ladies.
7. Understanding
Village ladies are cool-headed and have learnt to tame their emotion
so as to allow them understand their spouse. Lagos men like it when a
woman understands situations without asking too much questions. Lagos
ladies though educated and intelligent sometimes lack the basic sense
required in understanding the mood and turmoil of a man and this can
lead to tension when they cannot act appropriately. Lagos men would
rather marry a village lady knowing that there is a telepathic
understanding between the two of them.
8. Economical
Village ladies understand moderation and have learnt the skills to
economise. Lagos men know that the city has its ups and downs and like
it when a woman can make do with what is available. Lagos ladies find it
difficult to deal with less than they have been exposed to and some can
even raise hell if they do not get what they are used to. Lagos men
like the fact that the humble upbringing of most village ladies equips
them for any situation whether rain or shine.
9. Fidelity
Are village girls more faithful than city girls?
The Lagos lifestyle is a wild one and most ladies in the city have
been swept away by the tide. Some women find it difficult to deal with
the sexual strength and capacity of their husband because they have been
exposed to different sexual escapades. Ironically, it is the same men
who engage these ladies who know that it will be dangerous to have them
in the home. They feel that their already explored sexuality might pose
the possibility of marital infidelity. They feel more confident in
marrying village ladies who to an extent can guarantee fidelity.
10. Wife material
Who really makes a better wife, village girls or city girls?
Wife material is an expression used to describe a lady that
encapsulates all the qualities that a man wants in a woman. Lagos men
try to select a woman with wife material when they eventually want to
get married. They feel that Lagos ladies have little or no wife material
and therefore cast their nets in the village where they are likely to
find ladies who have yards and yards of wife material!
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